I have decided to stop wondering and just enjoy it all.

Great idea, April!

It was kind of you to let go of your plan to read books and talk to the young woman instead. I think people like her notice and appreciate and remember the kindness and otherliness behind that choice more when it doesn’t seem driven by a necessity to ‘witness’ to them – as yours obviously wasn’t, because you didn’t ‘witness’ in a traditional Christian way.

I know that speaking for myself I always feel a bit let down when someone seems to be interested in me and then it turns out they have ‘an agenda’ as they continue talking.